Reducing stress for your Wedding
By Rebecca Stewart, Wedding Co-ordinator, Visionary

So much goes into planning your perfect wedding but no matter the amount of dreaming and planning, this day, like any other, is subject to unpredictability.  It is important to examine your plans and think about what may go wrong before it does – forward planning is the secret weapon to the perfect wedding day.

The first step to perfect wedding panning is to set out a timeline of the events leading up to and on the big day, refer to this often and add or amend details as required. Be sure to include anything that comes to mind, however trivial they may seem. Keeping a timeline and associated checklist will not only help to keep you on track but also help you remain calm, in control and confident that nothing will be missed.  Once you are happy with your lists, distribute to any key people so that all involved are clear of your desires. Checklists can be made up specifically for those who play a significant role, as an example to help calm your mind, you might wish to include ‘don’t forget the rings!’ when devising a list for the ring bearer – it may sound over the top now but both yourself and the ring bearer will appreciate it come the actual day.

If you do not wish to employ the services of a professional wedding planner, it may help to assign somebody to the role of wedding assistant who can ensure that times are adhered to and that everybody is where they should be. Traditionally this is the role of Head Bridesmaid and Best Man, however it generally helps to have a third party overseeing the entire event so that they can leave to deliver extra flowers or play music at the appropriate intervals without interfering with the bridal party.

Generally easier said than done, the most important thing is to enjoy the process – physical factors can affect your stress levels enormously. Make sure that you get plenty of sleep, laugh with friends and enjoy. There is nothing that you or your wedding planner can do if it rains – enjoy and embrace the uniqueness of your day!

Contact Visionary weddings’ expert coordination team today to discuss your stress free wedding day!